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4-17-2007

San Francisco Featured Club



All photos courtesy of The Power Exchange
So I was standing at the corner of Sutter and Polk at about 2:45am one morning in early 2007. The R Bar across the street recently emptied out in a Streets of Fire-esque roar of motorcycle engines, and the block was no longer crammed with slow-driving men looking for their Friday night blowjob. My companion Geena was a Motherlode Girl, one of the tranny hookers who hangs out at Divas. A few paces away, Geena was being propositioned. Nothing new there, and I was only half-listening.

The guy said to me: "Can you please tell her not to?"

I replied: "Tell her not to do what?" I had a hunch that I was going to be on her side, whatever it was.

Geena said: "I'm trying to get a lift to The Power Exchange."

The fellow implored me: "Tell her not to go there. It isn't safe."

The Frankenstein Room
Photo courtesy of The Power Exchange.

The Dungeon Wall.
Photo courtesy of The Power Exchange.
Damn. I'd heard a lot of people talk a lot of shit over the years about The Power Exchange, and more so in recent months since I'd become a regular, but this was the best one yet: dude was telling a streetwalker that the frackin' Power Exchange is dangerous, presumably less so than getting into a stranger's car. And it wasn't like he was telling her not to be a prostitute or trying to otherwise "save" her, either. Just not to go to The Power Exchange.

Not attempting to stifle my laugh, I said: "I go there all the time. I love it. If I wasn't standing here right now, that's probably where I'd be."

In retrospect, I wish I'd asked him if he'd ever set foot inside. The answer probably would have been either "No," or "Once, a long time ago." That's how most haters reply when asked.

Found in an otherwise nondescript building at 74 Otis, The Power Exchange is a big huge vast sex 'n' BDSM space occupying four floors. The fourth floor used to be an all-male club, but closed to that purpose in late '06. As of April '07 it's in something of a limbo, theoretically resurrecting soon as a nightclub. The third floor, Level 3, is for heterosexual couples and single genetic girls. It's only open to everyone else during the monthly Fetish Ball. Me and the rest of the rabble spend most of our time in the first floor and the basement dungeon, collectively known as the Mixed Club.


Aaron, aka Demon Boy.
Photo courtesy of The Power Exchange.
Which brings me to the most banal complaint about The Power Exchange: all the purportedly straight men walking around, either masturbating or simply letting it all hang out but ready to grab anchor at a moment's notice.

Well, sure, yes. Gods bless 'em, says I. They're a fixture, they're part of the experience, they keep the electrical bill paid, and they subsidize us freeloaders--women and transfolx such as myself get into the Mixed Club free every night except the Fetish Ball. Indeed, the tourists and wankers and towelboys (so called because they get in for a reduced rate on Friday and Saturday if they wear a towel) are there to watch the girls suck cock and do whatever it is those kinds of people do, and the lucky tourist may even get to drop trou (towel, anyway) and get his own cock sucked. Meanwhile, I have someplace to hang out for free on weekend nights. Everybody wins.

Consent is queen, of course. It's a practical application of the Satanic principle of indulgence, not compulsion. Contrary to one of the more noxious rumors floating around, single women don't get descended upon and raped, and I've never sucked a cock I didn't want to suck. Whether or not a single woman should go there alone depends on her personal comfort level.

In any event, not all the men are wanking and/or displaying partial noodlety. Most are just kinda there, watching. Again, it's a comfort level issue. If you don't like the idea of being watched while you do your thing, then it's definitely not the best place for thing-doing. And that's something of shame, because there are so many things to be done.

And to see. The Power Exchange is worth a cruise just for the phantasmagoric splendor of its mise en scène. If Tom Cullen from The Stand decorated a sex club, it would look like The Power Exchange, laws yes. M-O-O-N, that spells kitsch. Like, with its optical assault of superhero and other pop-cultural detritus, the Comic Hallway (containing the coat check and the boutique) is practically worth the price of admission. Granted, it helps if you got in free.

The Blue White Room.
Photo courtesy of The Power Exchange.

The Comic Hallway.
Photo courtesy of The Power Exchange.
Though you have to provide your own toys, The Power Exchange provides plenty of safer sex accoutrement, and there's no shortage of surfaces—beds and tables and slings and horses and chairs and couches. Sometimes it's elaborate, like the Frankenstein Room with its larger-than-life statue of the titular Monster and medical table and the all-important Flashy Thing. A more modest example is the Antonioni-esque White Room, so named because of the white furniture and walls, the centerpiece being a large circular bed. The lighting in the room is blue, however, and blue light on white equals blue, so I refer to it as the Blue Room, but hey, that's just me. Next to it is the Red Room, which has red lights on red boudoir-style furnishings, thus meeting my lofty semantic standards. Thank you, drive through.

There are countless—well, many—other themed rooms of varying size, like the Cow Room and the Underwater Room and the Hawaiian Room. Sometimes I'll stumble upon one that I'd missed before, making The Power Exchange feels like Hogwarts, with new rooms appearing as required. Towards the back of the dungeon is the ever-popular Barracks, with a camoflauge decor, USMC logo on the wall, and quasi-privacy offered by curtains resembling thick mosquito netting. The Barracks (or, in my Zeitgeisty nomenclature, the Don't Ask Don't Tell Room) is where the majority of the sport cocksucking takes place.


Chey and Stefanos.
Photo courtesy of The Power Exchange.
(Lest I sound obsessed with the fellationic arts, I should point out that the sucking of cock is far from the only thing that happens at The Power Exchange. There's just a lot of cocksucking because, as has been the case through human history, it's so damn easy and convenient. By the end of the evening, some of the girls have the distinct smell of jorm on their breath, and their teeth have a special glow. Though maybe that's the ubiquitous blacklights.)

There's so much more. On the Dungeon level alone there's the Porn Room, which is decorated like an Ice Storm-era living room with multiple televisions showing porn; tourists usually go in there, sit down, and hope they'll get sucked off. It's second only to the Don't Ask Don't Tell Room in terms of Expectation. Occupying the most space in the dungeon is the for-players-only Cage with its horses and St. Andrew's Cross, as well as the Sling. The Sling is frequently occupied a naked guy masturbating. I call him The Naked Guy Masturbating in the Sling.

Like any other sex club or play space, even the much-lauded Citadel, The Power Exchange is a crapshoot. In spite of the wankers, however, it has an open vibe which encourages experimentation and just plain strangeness. Part of this is because it feels like it's always there; nine in the evening to five in the morning, Thursday through Saturday, covers a lot of ground. Say it's 3am Saturday morning, and you wanna take your rubbermaid slave out on the town for a good fuck in front of an audience. Where the hell else are you going to go? Though the security staff is attentive and responsive, the result is a law-of-the-jungle element which keeps things interesting—scary to some, endlessly fascinating to others. You never know who's going to walk through the door.

If you see The Naked Guy Masturbating in the Sling, tell him Sherilyn says hi.

Power Exchange Quick Info:
when Thursday-Saturday
where 74 Otis, San Francisco
time 9pm-5am
cost Varies; see website
contact

www.powerexchange.com

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